Thursday, 25 September 2014

The Very Inspiring Blogger Award!

I have been nominated for three blog awards, and haven't done anything about any of them! I'm putting this right in reverse order, starting today with The Very Inspiring Blogger Award. 

I was nominated for this by Jessica of Chronically Vintage, who shared her seven very interesting random facts hereIf you are wondering what our connection is, you'll find out below!

Seven Totally Random Facts About Me

1. I have been vegetarian for 29 years!

Yes, next year I will have been vegetarian for three whole decades. I have no regrets, zero interest in adding flesh of any kind to my diet, and I love my animal friends as much as ever!

2. My favourite animals are dogs (OK you may have guessed this one) and horses.

My dogs

love the faithful companionship of dogs and share my home with two (at the moment!). They have brought a lot of pleasure to my life, but easy to overlook are the health benefits. Before I had to go out and walk every day (at least twice), I used to get quite down over the winter. Now I actively look forward to those windy and freezing days, when I can come back after a refreshing walk to a soothing hot drink, having blown away the proverbial cobwebs. Yes, owning a dog is a big commitment, but my experience is that they more than repay the inconveniences. As for horses, my father was an amateur jockey so horses were part of my life from a young age. I rode ponies and often dream of getting back on horseback.

3. I have had several 'lives'.

No, I don't mean I have been reincarnated or regressed, just I am one of those people who for one reason or another has worked in lots of different environments and/or trained for a variety of careers, including those as varied as a beauty therapist, counsellor and personal assistant.

4. I am a secret history and vintage clothing enthusiast.

I am sure you are looking at the stuff I make and not seeing this at all. While it is true I dress mostly in modern styles, I have a lifelong fascination with history which is very broad, going right back to the earliest civilisations. I'm particularly interested in what life was like for ordinary people and how they dressed and why is a natural extension of this. I had colouring books of costumes through the ages in my childhood, and studied a module on the subject at college. 

An illustration I drew for my college fashion history file

Long before 'vintage' was a thing, I frequented second hand shops for individual, inexpensive, one-off items of clothing (often with hilarious results). I sometimes altered them, taking collars off men's shirts or putting two garments together, as well as sewing my own. (Note, in my youth there was a fabric shop selling reasonably priced fabric in every small town and literally nobody was interested in old clothes.)

Notes I made from a book called 'Vogue More Dash Than Cash' when I was
a fashion student in the late '80's. They were typed up on my Dad's old typewriter!

The advent of the internet meant a wealth of newly accessible information. Searching 'sustainable style', I discovered people actually wore vintage clothes head to toe (there is no-one doing that round here). For me it was history coming alive, I love to look at original garments and sewing patterns. Vintage appeals to me on other levels, too. One, there is nothing more sustainable than proudly wearing clothes that are decades old. Two, I love the idea of dressing however you want. Jessica's blog is one of the very first I came across, and one of the few 'vintage' blogs that have remained on my blog roll. I love the mix of history and style, especially the photographs she regularly posts which illustrate exactly how (mostly, but not exclusively, mid-century) folks really looked, original adverts, and recipes (which I occasionally try - what people ate is interesting to me too). I'm sure Jessica won't mind me sharing we have some health challenges in common as well, and it was seeing that she could blog, along with this post by So Zo's husband Pat, that convinced me that even if I couldn't blog often, starting a blog was something I could do.

One summer (before this blog) I decided to try dressing in a fully vintage style myself. I didn't know much about casual looks at the time so this comprised a skirt, lipstick and pearls approach. My teenage daughter kindly shared with me that "I looked older than grandma" (kind of the point, but still)! This was enough to convince me that the full vintage ship had sailed in my case. So these days I confine myself to admiring others, and adding vintage elements to a modern wardrobe. I particularly adore classic accessories - currently I own a structured black handbag, timeless pearl earrings and quite a few pairs of vintage or vintage appropriate shoes (brogues, loafers, wedges). Incidentally, Jessica also has an Etsy shop, should you be looking for some unique vintage additions yourself. I also love a full vintage make-up for special occasions/evenings. I have a handful of vintage sewing patterns in styles I think I can pull off, and have just received a copy of 'Gertie Sews Vintage Casual' (review to follow), so while I have dismissed a full vintage look for myself, there may well be some more vintage-style sewing in my future!

5. I'm also very interested in politics and current affairs.

I love to start the day with a good political debate on the radio while I prepare breakfast and the lunches, although I am not remotely interested in celebrity gossip, and become quite offended if this is presented as 'news'!

6. I am content.

Believe me, I haven't always felt this way but now I know I have enough in a material sense. It's so easy to get caught up in the pursuit of things, and miss out on what's really important...material possessions will never bring that deep down, long lasting happiness (however intense the initial hit), and devoting a lot of time to chasing them means missing out on so much other stuff. Even during times of crisis (which come in everyone's life), I try to be thankful for what I have. See below!

7. I have had swine flu and lived to tell the tale.

A few years ago I had a major health crisis, which shook my body and soul. The flu I had led to persistent infections, necessitating me giving up my job working with children and becoming virtually bed bound. I'm not going to go over all the symptoms here, suffice it to say they were horrendous, and had a massive impact on my ability to do anything of significance for a long time. 

Not being able to rely on my previously relatively healthy body (which I had taken for granted all my life) had a major psychological impact. I completely reassessed my life. I realised I needed to live differently to increase my chances of recovery, and began an on-going process of simplification. I scaled down my social life, volunteered less and said 'no' more often. I radically reduced the amount of clothes and styles in my wardrobe, so that getting dressed in the morning was easier. I had to slow down and relax previously high standards, which I found particularly difficult.

Apart from desperately searching for cures and longing to be well, I realised the only regret I would have at the end of my life was if I hadn't spent enough time with my close family and friends. I saw how precious and irreplaceable they are all over again. Time spent with them, even if it's just something ordinary like having dinner together, is the most treasured time of all....hug your family and friends!

Finally, I am a lot better these days although I have been left with a couple of chronic illnesses which do cause pain and some tiredness, but not like the first few years. There are limitations on what I can do (I can't write more than a paragraph by hand for example, as my hand cramps and I am not yet well enough to resume aerobic exercise), but I am going to interviews for (part-time) work outside the home and have managed some long drives, albeit with lengthy stops.

The lessons I learned during those hard years continue to work themselves out in my life, but ultimately I hope one day to be able be able to say I got more from the bad times than I lost. In the meantime, I'm just so happy to be here :)

Finally I would like to nominate:

Solvi of Delfineslise
Helen of Grosgrain Green
Kerry of Kestrel Makes
Debbie of Minnado's House
Kristin of Sunny Sewing

I chose these blogs because I feel they already reflect something of the personality of the blogger, and they've made me curious to learn more! Feel free not to take part if awards aren't your thing, or you've had the award before....if you do take part, I look forward to reading 7 Random Facts about you! Thank you for nominating me, Jessica and giving me the chance to share a bit more about myself here.

Happy sewing, 'til next time,

Philippa x


  1. Oh my Philippa! I learned a lot about you that I didn't know! I love reading these things. I can see how much we have in common, plus it lets me know things about you that I can't just pick up reading your blog :D
    Dogs are amazing - I would be lost without my baby Nala. I'm impressed you have been a vegetarian that long! Congrats on that because it is a huge accomplishment in a world of tons of meat choices.
    So sorry to hear about the swine flu. I had just begun my battle with my mystery illness about the time that flu was making it's rounds. I was a welfare counselor then and was terrified I'd get it. I had a few clients that did but I lucked out. I'm glad you are feeling in a much better place now. It is so hard to dig out of that dark place. I agree that the people around you are priceless compared to material things. Good luck with the interview - and thanks for the nomination! (I'll tackle it in a bit here when I get back on my feet)
    Thanks for sharing these!

  2. Thank you Phillippa, for a glimpse of the real you. I'm glad you are getting better! And thank you for the nomination as well. I wasn't sure I'd be able to come up with seven things, but it turned out to be not that hard after all.

  3. Wow Philippa! Those were amazing facts you shared! You have overcome a great trial and I love your attitude. Contentment is something that illudes most so what a gift for you to have found it. It was so nice to get to know you a little more! Thank you.

  4. I particularly enjoyed this post - what a great way to learn more about you! Congrats, I love your blog x

  5. Oh Philippa, it was so nice to read more about you but I am so sorry to hear you had the swine flu; that is a dreadful thing. I'm so very glad you have such a positive outlook and are getting better. *hugs* You are so right that time with our family and loved ones is the most important thing in life. thank you for the reminder :)

  6. Thanks for the nomination Philippa, will this do?

  7. Thank you for the nomination - I only just realised it was there - missed your post! What an interesting post though, feel I learnt lots about you. xx

  8. Awesome, engaging answers, dear Philippa. I adored getting to know you even better and am touched that you were keen to play along with this award. Thank you very much for sharing that you received it for me and giving Chronically Vintage a lovely shout out.

    I now know that we're both huge dog and horse fans (okay, I knew that we loved dogs, but ponies are a new discovery), as well as that we're content with our lives (that is truly one of the greatest keys to happiness).

    Big hugs,
    ♥ Jessica


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